Nature of contemporary family conflicts and their impact on family stability

Abstract

Background: The family is the fundamental unit of human society, traditionally established through marriage and responsible for child-rearing, economic cooperation, and social support. However, in modern society, family structures and relationships have undergone significant changes. Advances in technology, rapid lifestyle transformations, and increasing social pressures have contributed to a rise in extramarital relationships. Failure to address these issues not only undermines marital stability but also profoundly affects children's lives and mental well-being. This research investigated the complex relationship between family conflicts and extramarital affairs within the Mirigama Police Division of the Gampaha District. Method: An analysis of police complaints received over the past four months revealed that 54 complaints were recorded in August, 65 in September, and 96 in October, all pertaining to family disputes. Results: The majority of these complaints originated from the Mirigama Grama Niladhari Division, and a significant number were associated with extramarital relationships. Through this research, a deeper understanding of the interplay between family conflicts and extramarital affairs within the Mirigama police jurisdiction is anticipated, along with an examination of their impact on children. The study aims to identify the socio-economic and cultural factors contributing to these issues and propose potential solutions. The research methodology involves an analysis of police complaints documented at the Mirigama Police Station. A randomly selected sample of complaints will be used for both primary and secondary data analysis, with primary data sourced directly from police records. A key finding of the study is that the Mirigama Mawihena area exhibits the highest incidence of family disputes. Moreover, the research revealed that employment in garment factories by both men and women is a major contributing factor to extramarital affairs in this region. Other factors influencing extramarital relationships include female dominance in households, breakdowns in communication, substance abuse, financial difficulties, the influence of certain drugs on sexual behavior, non-traditional sexual preferences, and the impact of technology. Conclusion: These issues have resulted in parents spending less time with their children, leaving the latter feeling isolated and unprotected.